Nominated by Nancy Franz Tell us a little about the volunteer: Dr. Jim Pease has volunteered for the last four decades, advocating for Iowa’s natural resources as an interpreter, instructor, writer and voice on many environmental issues and education projects. He has taught thousands of Iowans, … Continue reading 50 Faces of Volunteers – Dr. James Pease
The bet was that if Nick beat Adam one more time at knockout, Adam would buy his mentee a soda. It had been a pretty good day for Nick so far, but Adam thought he might still have a chance against his 8th grade competitor. Yet after several more basketball shots it was clear that Nick had creamed him, and Adam brought the victor his soda.
Nick and Adam met in fall of 2015 through the Independence Community Schools Mentoring Program (ICSM). Adam was engaged in the Silver Cord group at his high school for which he would do 200 hours of volunteering over the course of his four years there. Val, the program director for ICSM, encouraged Adam to participate in mentoring his senior year, and matched him with Nick. Nick had had a hard previous semester and found the opportunity to get a mentor.
I’m interviewing the two over the phone almost a year after they were matched for school-based mentoring and they talk like old friends. Val, the program director for ICSM, asks if they ended up studying together at all. The boys laugh and tell her no; they were too busy playing basketball. Between knockout and nitro ball, the two also enjoy playing Connect Four, eating ice cream, and just hanging out to talk.
And for both of them, that was exactly what they needed. In a paper he wrote for English class about someone he looks up to, Nick cited Adam as being a role model in terms of grades, sports, and friendliness.
“Adam has very good grades [and he] is a very hard worker…I got a 3.2 [last quarter] and it’s because I look up to him. Knowing that he’s so smart it makes me want to get good grades like him,” Nick writes. More importantly, Nick says that spending time with Adam regularly “helped me realize that I’m not very lonely.” He adds, “I like playing games with him; he’s a very good sport and he is very helpful.”
Adam is glad he got a chance to help someone else, saying that Nick “helped me, too.” During the stresses of senior year in high school, Adam found his time with Nick to be a good break from school and the opportunity to make a friend. “It was nice to just do something fun,” he says. “Nick is open to making new friends, is a good sport, and always had a good story to tell me.”
The two plan on keeping in touch through email and hanging out when Adam is home for college breaks. Nick attended Adam’s high school graduation and is excited to see his mentor start at the University of Iowa this fall, where he plans on majoring in Business with a certificate in business writing. Nick is now headed into his first year of high school where he looks forward to getting involved in sports like bowling as well as continuing in the mentoring program.
About fostering a positive and long lasting mentoring friendship, Adam tells me, “Be yourself around each other and be willing to earn more about each other.”
You can be a positive mentor for someone and have fun as well! Click here to become a mentor today.
Nominated by Mark McInroy with the Iowa DNR Tell us a little about the volunteer: Tiffany is a student at Iowa State University, and her 150 hours of service goes toward her 400 hours of internship necessary for graduation. She provided 70 hours to building … Continue reading 50 Faces of Volunteers – Tiffany Williams
Nominated by Anderson Sainci and Ricardo Cunningham Tell us a little about the volunteer group: The Dubuque Black Men Coalition is a network of African American men who have came together in efforts to improve the quality of life within the Dubuque Community. We accomplish … Continue reading 50 Faces of Volunteers – Dubuque Black Men Coalition
The following is a heartwarming story written up by mentor DJ after an outing with mentee Quentin to see the Globetrotters. Quentin and DJ are matched through Mentoring Affects Youth (M.A.Y.) in Shenandoah.
“Yesterday I had the joy of taking Quentin to see The Harlem Globetrotters in Omaha at Century-Link Center. Quentin has never seen them and prior to this didn’t know a whole lot about them. I purchased what I believed would be very good seats for his first time.
We arrived at the arena and I could tell he was immediately taken back by the size of the facility. In normal Q style he posed with one of the statues out front of the arena.
We got inside the arena and before we even sat in our seats, bought a single souvenir or snack we walked around and all he could do was grin. He said “I’ve got this tingly feeling in my stomach because I’m so happy.”
We found where the memorabilia was being sold (on the floor next to the court) and we made our way down. A boy has to have proper memorabilia to remember the first time he saw The Harlem Globetrotters!
Q decided he would like some cotton candy so our next stop was the concession stand. Now loaded with merchandise, drinks, popcorn and cotton candy we searched for our seats. We found section 120 and asked the attendant where we could find 120C. She had no idea what C meant but I was certainly in the right spot! Section 120 was right above us, row BB seats 19 and 20. We walked up a short flight of stairs and there we were seated. Not bad seats but not as good as I had hope or even thought I purchased. We had a rail somewhat blocking our view but Q didn’t let that discourage him. He made sure to once again let me know he was feeling happy. He thanked me on several occasions. I honestly got a little overwhelmed just by being there with him and feeling his energy and excitement. (Not an easy task when you have 1000 kids with basketballs bouncing them wildly everywhere haha)
I admit I was a bit disappointed in our seats but was still bound and determined to have a great time.
A few moments later the attendant showed back up with two other spectators and asked us for our tickets. Couldn’t help but wonder why! She just saw them 2 minutes ago AND she sat us there. Well apparently we were in someone else’s seats. Not good. The attendant directed us down to see yet another attendant. That attendant passed us off to yet a third attendant who happened to know the seating chart for the game. We were then escorted to our actual seats “Courtside Center Court!” The look on Q’s face was priceless!!
Ok I was a little excited too!
The game started and from the very beginning it seemed as if we were part the action. Q just watched in amazement as the team made dunk after dunk, half court shots and passed the ball faster than your eyes could watch. He laughed, we laughed so hard.
Little did I know that I may have wanted to stay seated in my original location because my involvement in the game became well… embarrassing!
I was pulled onto the court initially because the star of the show “Big Easy” was seeking a female to dance with. He turned, saw me and proclaimed I was the ugliest woman he had ever seen! I was escorted back to my seat. They then grabbed a lovely lady seated next to me and drug her to the court and made her dance. I was so relieved that wasn’t me! She returned to her seat laughing hysterically. One of the teammates informed Big Easy I was VERY upset and jealous for dancing with her. Big Easy told them to get me back to the court. YIKES!
Big Easy stated he knew I was jealous and was gonna make it right!
The lights went dim, Big Easy told everyone to light up the room with their cell phones, spot light came down and Big Easy began to sing Adele’s “Hello.” If that wasn’t enough to embarrass me to death, he began to romance me, stroke my hair, dance with me and yes… pick me up and swirl me around. Q had managed to catch the majority of it on video.
Best part of the video is Q screaming “That’s DJ!”
I came back to my seat and Q said he wanted to get on the court. I could only hope. After moments of being drenched with a bucket of water, harassed by the opposing team coach and just all around fully engaged in the show, his moment came! He was so excited to make it to the court and perform Y.M.C.A.
The boy was having the time of his life and all I could do was laugh and smile. We finished off the event with a couple well earned autographs. I was even able to give him the game used wrist band from my new found love Big Easy.
On the drive home he continued to share his gratitude. We talked about how far he has come since we first met. In November he would have had a difficult time being away from Grandma for such a long period. We talked about how his relationship with his Mother has improved.
He had a difficult day prior to the game when his Mother had a meltdown and was unavailable to him mentally and emotionally. They had hoped to go do fun things that day but wound up doing nothing. The day was a huge let down and just another example of how he faces disappointment when all he wants is the love of his Mother. Quentin still manages to find strength and courage and with the help of Grandma and God he copes extremely well.
Mentoring Quentin has brought me so much more than I could ever write an a single email. Quentin himself is a blessing and a gift. He rewards me with his kind heart and good nature. His potential is limitless.
However at the moment in the car when he turned to me and began to sing Adele’s “Hello” I did threaten to throw him out of the car without slowing down.”
To see the videos mentioned in the story, please visit DJ’s YouTube channel here.
To read more stories about mentors, click here.
Nominated by Jasmina Popaja, Lutheran Services in Iowa Tell us a little about the volunteer: Julie Powell was an eighth grade Language Arts teacher for thirty-four years in West Des Moines. Not long after retiring from that she began volunteering at LSI. The involvement with LSI and … Continue reading 50 Faces of Volunteers – Julie Powell
Nominated by Bek Wright, Greater Des Moines Habitat for Humanity Tell us a little about the volunteer: Ken has been volunteering with Greater Des Moines Habitat for Humanity for 11 years. He works with a group of men from Lutheran organizations and churches that come … Continue reading 50 Faces of Volunteers – Ken Setzkorn